it’s kind of funny how many people take ‘don’t be negative’ as synonymous with ‘be positive’, cause man, that’s not what i mean at all. positivity is hard! sometimes way too hard! neutrality is infinitely easier and i wish more people knew it was an option. it seems to just not occur to people a lot of the time.
like man i’m sure we all know how hard it is to love yourself, to be your own best friend, but you don’t need to do that to get by. it feels lovely to have an ego but you don’t need one. it’s fine to be your own acquaintance, to have a business relationship with yourself, to just kind of be okay with yourself. it’s hard as fuck to go from “i’m worthless” to “i’m great”! taking a break at “well i could be worse” is totally fine. just tolerate yourself if you have to.
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